Tuesday, June 15, 2010

The Daughter Graduates



Our graduate, Heather Grace - "looking into the future" as my husband describes the pose....

It seems like just yesterday when the hubby, the daughter (Heather) and I went to orientation at Ohio University. We listened to many speeches about what to expect, and advice was given to parents to stop hovering and let their kids go.

And here we were, 4 years later, driving down for graduation.

There is something so exciting about graduations - any kind. This is the biggest one I have ever attended. All the graduates were on the lower level with some overflow in a balcony. I started counting how many were in a row and how many rows there were, and I figured there were about 6,000 kids graduating. I thought geez, add in the speeches and watching each kid walk across the stage, and well, I thought we'd be there all day except there was another graduation scheduled for 4.5 hours after the one we attended.

It started out with people marching out holding flags with names - "College of Business" (which Heather was in), "College of Engineering" etc. And the orchestra played Pomp and Circumstance - I don't know how that became the official graduation tune, but it works. The speeches were great. Something in my head always equates "speech" with "boring." The professional speaking, an alumnus of OU, was very high energy and motivational. The student speaking was quite charming and funny. He was wondering why everyone always says "wait until you get in the real world" and wondered if the world he had been living in for the past 4 years was just a figment of his imagination. Then came the conferring of the degrees. I have never seen such speed and efficiency in my life. There was no walking across the stage. They had kids coming up 3 steps to each side of the stage, at the same time, with the announcer obviously being a speed reader. If you blinked, you missed your kid.

Then it was back to the dilapidated house where we paid way too much in rent money. We had some pieces of furniture to move out. It was about 88 degrees and very humid. The tree lawns nearby were littered with tons of furniture. I walked outside and noticed a guy in a pick-up truck, loading all the furniture into his truck. I thought now that is smart. And that is the business to be in at a college town - pick it up free in June and sell it in August. The guy saw me and asked if I needed help moving. I said YES and he helped move the furniture down the stairs and into our car.

Then it was out to lunch with Heather's good friend and her family.

Then the 3+ hour ride home. As we left beautiful Athens Ohio, my husband said "well I guess we'll never be coming back here again" and honestly, I won't miss that ride.

So now "real life" begins for Heather.

Or it will once she finds a job.

25 comments:

JessInFocus said...

Oh congratulations! Be glad they even called her name. My friend would have graduated with that many people. The main graduation they only called up the doctorates and that kind of thing, but each department had their own graduation. My friend decided to do that one instead since she wouldn't have even been able to walk at the main one. Her department was small and they were wonderful making sure everyone got the picture they wanted of their grad up on stage. It was the best graduation I had ever been to. I will be posting my progress on my blog. Not really any names yet. We've had the girl name picked out since weeks after finding out (Claire), but the boy name has proven more difficult.

Together We Save said...

Congrats to the graduate... she is beautiful. It is wonderful to imagine all the world has in store for her.

Jeanie said...

Congratulations -- I know, I said it in person this weekend, but the parents deserve as many kudos as the kids! Heather was lucky to have good support and I'm so very proud of her and you!

Great to see you this weekend -- I wish we weren't so far away! (But July 4 is soon!)

Jenny said...

What a great accomplishment - go Heather!!! It sounds like it was a tiring day but a lot of fun at the same time.

Delaney said...

Congratulations! She looks so cute! Big step for her and I hope she gets the job she really wants.

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Congratulations!

Perpetual Chocoholic said...

Where'd you go?

"Cottage By The Sea" said...

My daughter graduated last May in Texas. I've never been anywhere so hot and humid but the ceremony was worth it. Very touching, patriotic, (a religious school) so the importance of faith and character was present. As graduations go it went fast yet stayed personal. The speeches were inspiring and I of course, I cried more than once. After 4 years of University and hard work I was so proud of my baby and so happy for her accomplishment. Also beyond excited not to have any more tuition to pay!!!

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